The Best Day to Get Married – How to Choose Your Perfect Wedding Date
The calendar year is full of holidays — but add to that your work commitments, family obligations, and, of course, your guests’ schedules. So, when is the best day to get married? Choosing the “right” wedding date is often more challenging than expected — especially during certain seasons.
That’s why I’ve created this simple guide to help you find the perfect wedding day. I’ll answer some of the most common questions about wedding dates — so grab your calendar and a pencil, and let’s get started!
Keep in mind: these tips are meant as a helpful framework, especially if you’re still flexible and haven’t yet set your date.
When is the best day to get married?
Below, I’ll answer five of the most frequently asked questions.
Which day of the week is best for a wedding?
Saturday is by far the most popular day of the week for weddings.
Most people don’t have to work, and guests traveling from out of town can easily arrive on Friday evening or Saturday morning. Plus, everyone has Sunday to rest before heading back to work — or for you, to leave for your honeymoon.
However, more and more couples are choosing weekday weddings. Why? Two main reasons: weekday weddings are often more affordable, and venues and vendors are much more likely to be available.
What are the most popular wedding months?
September, October, and November are becoming increasingly popular for weddings. In fact, fall weddings have now surpassed spring (March–May) in popularity!
Of course, May and June weddings will always be classics. A 2020 survey by Hochzeitsportal24 showed a 41% increase in fall weddings compared to the previous year.
That said, people get married all year round — from romantic winter weddings in January to summer celebrations with outdoor barbecues or autumn ceremonies under golden leaves. There’s no such thing as a wrong month to get married.
Here are a few questions to help you narrow down your ideal wedding month:
- Does a specific month hold special meaning for you? Maybe you met while hiking and want to plan a wedding weekend with your guests in similar weather — June or September could be perfect. Or perhaps you’d like to honor the birth month of a loved one.
- Are you working with a smaller budget? Winter months like January, February, and March tend to be more budget-friendly — and ideal for couples who love cozy moments or winter sports.
- Is your dream venue fully booked in spring or summer? If you’re flexible, consider off-peak months like February or March for more availability and better rates.
Can you get married on a Monday?
Absolutely! Monday weddings are a great choice — especially if you’re planning on a tighter budget. Weekday weddings are usually much cheaper, with Monday being the most affordable. Prices tend to rise as you move closer to the weekend.
Just be mindful of public holidays that fall on Mondays — hotel bookings, traffic, or guest availability might be affected during long weekends.
Can you get married during Christmas time?
Getting married around Christmas can be magical. Your family may already be gathered, the atmosphere is festive, and venues are often beautifully decorated. But there are also some drawbacks to consider.
Advantages of a Christmas wedding:
- You’ll never forget your anniversary date.
- Family is probably already spending Christmas together
- Family and friends may already have time off work.
- You can embrace a beautiful holiday theme.
- Your anniversary celebrations can blend with the festive season.
Disadvantages of a Christmas wedding:
- Many guests might already have holiday plans with their families.
- It’s one of the most expensive times of year.
- Travel, hotels, and venues are busier and pricier.
- Your wedding date might feel less personal compared to a major holiday.
The same applies to weddings on New Year’s Eve, New Year’s Day, or Easter — possible, yes, but often quite costly.
What are considered lucky or unlucky wedding dates?
Superstitious or not, folklore and culture have long influenced wedding date traditions. Here are a few beliefs to keep in mind:
- Numerology: Repeating or symmetrical dates (like 21.02.21 or 22.02.22) are seen as lucky.
- Special dates: Your engagement date, first date, or a loved one’s birthday can hold special meaning.
- Moon phases: Weddings during a full moon are believed to bring stability and happiness.
- The Ides of March (March 15): Associated with Julius Caesar’s death — not ideal unless you’re a Shakespeare fan!
- Leap years: Some traditions warn against marrying in a leap year, as it could bring bad luck (we’ll let you decide 😉).
- Friday the 13th: Considered unlucky in some cultures, but lucky in others!
- Black Friday: The Friday after Thanksgiving is a challenging day for a wedding, as people may be recovering from their big family celebration and might still be spending time with family. It's also a busy day on the roads, as bargain hunters will be out looking for deals.
- Birthdays: If your wedding falls on your own or a guest’s birthday, make it extra special with a shared celebration.
Choose the date that feels right for you
Some of these dates may be symbolic or traditional, but in the end, the best wedding date is the one that feels meaningful to you and your partner.If you met on Labor Day weekend, that might be the perfect anniversary date for you!
Remember — you can’t pick a date that works for everyone (and you shouldn’t try). Talk to your closest family members to avoid major conflicts, but don’t let other people’s calendars dictate your dream day.
Eternal Love wishes you all the best in finding the perfect date for your wedding — one that’s meaningful, memorable, and uniquely yours.
With love, Christin 💖
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